1. Living Arrangements
If the couple plans to live together before marriage, discussing living arrangements is crucial for a smooth cohabitation experience. This includes decisions about moving in together, dividing responsibilities, and adjusting to shared living spaces. It also includes considerations like city vs. suburb, type of housing, and lifestyle choices.
Some questions can be:
- Where do you envision us living after we get married?
- Are you open to buying a house, renting an apartment, or living with family?
- What kind of neighborhood would you like to live in?
- How important is proximity to work, schools, or family?
- Are you open to relocate after marriage if anyone of us gets transferred due to career?
These discussions ensure both partners are aligned in their expectations, fostering a shared vision for their home. Identify what are your deal-breakers and how you can communicate to avoid any conflict related to this.